Let's
Meet: Rebuilding Community - Part II
Things are quite different in Europe. Everytime
I talk about social capital to people in Britain or Sweden
or France, and then talk about the role of religion,
people start looking at me strangely. Religion is a much
smaller part of community life there. And you have to
explain to Europeans that you’re not talking about
kooks, or the Jim Joneses of the world... |
An Inquiry from Cyberspace
When this e-mail inquiry appeared on my screen I was
immediately struck by the wealth of implications that
are involved. A quick note back would not allow a nuanced
reply that would address a whole range of issues. A conversation
was needed. So, I called Bev Thompson (The names have
been changed, of course.) that same day. My initial concern
was to communicate my respect for the tension that was
involved and to suggest that this one should not be too
quickly or too summarily resolved... |
Worth Repeating
Small
church communities not only foster the faith
of individuals, they are living cells which
build up the body of Christ. They are to
be signs and instruments of unity. As basic
units of the parish, they serve to increase
the corporate life and mission of the parish
by sharing in its life generously with their
talents and support.
Called and Gifted for the Third Millennium,
National Conference of Catholic Bishops, November, 1995.
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Let's
Meet: Rebuilding Community - Part II
(Editor’s
Note: In this issue of Gatherings, we continue with
part two of David Wood’s interview with Harvard
sociologist, Robert Putnam. Part one appeared in the
last issue of Gatherings. Putnam’s research has
focused on the decline and recovery of social capital
in American society. Putnam would see the development
of small church communities as an important contributor
to the development of both bonding and bridging social
capital in our society.)
Doesn't religion figure prominently into
any building of social capital?
That is certainly true in the U.S., where about
half of all social capital is religious. About half of all volunteering is religious. About
half of all philanthropy is religious. About
half of all group memberships are religious.
You can’t talk about social capital in
the U.S. without talking about religion. Religion
is not only a large part of the connectivity,
it is also an important motivation for getting
people engaged with one another.
Things are quite different in Europe. Everytime
I talk about social capital to people in Britain
or Sweden or France, and then talk about the
role of religion, people start looking at me
strangely. Religion is a much smaller part of
community life there. And you have to explain
to Europeans that you’re not talking about
kooks, or the Jim Joneses of the world. Anyway,
in the U.S., religion is a source of connectivity.
That doesn’t mean it’s always a source
of connectivity.
In some circles people assume that involvement
in religious communities detaches people from
the larger society.
The main conclusion I draw from the data is
that, other things being equal, the person who
is involved in religious life is also likely
to be more involved then his secular counterpart
in the life of the community. That is, the people
who go to church on Sunday are also the people
who are more likely to be active in the PTA and
to be giving to the United Way and to be volunteering
for soup kitchens in secular settings.
This pattern is actually more true for some
denominations than others. Broadly speaking,
it’s more true for the mainline Protestant
denominations and less true for fundalmentalist
congregations. There is some evidence that this
pattern has changed as the evangelical movement
has expanded in America over the past 20 to 30
years.
How do you account for the remarkable
attention given to your article “Bowling
Alone” and the book that followed?
It’s because I accidentally stumbled onto a problem that
many Americans know about from their own lives. People have a sense
that, “Oh, my Mom belonged to Hadassah, but I don’t.” Or
they know that their Dad belonged to Rotary, or that their parents
went to church, and they know they don’t and they feel a
little bad about that. They thought it was just their problem.
And then along comes this Harvard professor who says, “It
isn’t your problem, it’s our problem.” Suddenly
my work was not just an academic study.
You mentioned television as one of
the reasons for the decline in civic engagement.
Would you make other connections between technology
and the cultural change you’ve been mapping?
I wouldn’t say that all technology has the same effect on
social connections. The introduction of the telephone, for example,
was probably on average an aid to social connectivity, although
at the time people were less sure about that. Lots of technological
changes don’t have any effect on social networks. However,
the one core social change that is directly related to technological
innovation in the 20th century has to do with the privatization
of our leisure time. By which I mean movies, radio, CDs, television,
video games, the Internet and so on.
In 1900, you couldn’t listen to music here in Jaffrey unless
you did it in the company of other people. And within ten miles
of Jaffrey there were five community bands. None exists anymore.
Of course, I can now listen to the finest music in the world in
the privacy of my own earphones and not see another person. That
fact has a powerful, largely negative effect on social capital.
This kind of privatization is not just about our disengagement
from public life. It tends to foster disengagement from one another
in the private spaces of our homes as well.
The average American now watches four hours of television a day.
Most people are watching Friends rather than having
friends. That’s unquestionably bad from the point of view
of social capital The Internet presents a more complicated story
because the Internet is, after all, a network. In principle it
could be supporting social networks. It’s way too early to
know for sure what it’s doing. A lot depends on whether in
practice the Internet turns out to be like a nifty telephone or
a nifty television. In our work on Better Together,
we discovered that computer based communication contributed most
to the building of social capital when it functioned as a supplement
to face-to-face communication, not as an alternative to it.
What can be done to reverse the negative
trends you’ve identified?
I think there are some large-scale social changes that could have
an impact. For example, offering greater flexibility in work hours
would help people better balance family, workplace and community
obligations. But in general I think this is a problem that requires
bottom-up, not top-down, solutions. That’s why Better Together
is mainly looking at local developments. In a very real sense,
all social capital is local.
In Better Together, one of your case
studies highlights two California churches
not commonly linked—Saddleback Community
Church and All Saints Episcopal Church in Pasadena.
What’s significant about those churches?
What they have in common is organizational innovation chiefly in
their capacity to act small in important ways. I think that the
folks at Saddleback have done a remarkable job of combining three
things that don’t normally go together. First, they make
very savvy use of marketing. Second, they present a consistent,
theologically conservative set of views. They know what they believe.
The third element, and in my view the most important, is their
very thoughtful approach to building community. This church, with
about 30,000 members, focuses on creating face-to-face relationships
by forming small groups of eight, ten or 12 people.
At Saddleback, the Sunday service is for attracting seekers. And
the threshold for that service is really low. You can be anonymous,
and if you want to sit in a place that looks like Starbucks and
watch video screens while you sip your coffee or read four newspapers,
you can do that.
But once you’re past that threshold, there’s a really
steep slope of increasing commitment that’s expected. And
it’s not a bait-and-switch strategy. It’s not as if
you go in for the Starbucks atmosphere and then are asked to buy
all the religious stuff. They’re upfront about what they’re
offering, and it’s not religion lite.
But the leaders see the church in terms of the small groups. That’s
where the learning goes on, where the serious praying goes on,
where the communion goes on. What interests me as a social scientist
is this strategy of creating social capital.
In your work you make a distinction
between “bonding social capital” (social
connections based on affinity) and “bridging
social capital” (social connections across
genuine differences). How much of these different
kinds of social capital did you find in these
churches?
One question I’d raise about the Saddleback groups is: How
homogenous are they? Are they connecting people who are just like
one another or are they connecting people unlike one another? On
this point I think All Saints offers a contrast, because its small
groups are diverse by design. Whereas at Saddleback the small group
will involve, say, all young couples or all young parents, at All
Saints the groups will include some gays and some straights, some
men and some women, some married and some single, some black and
some brown and some white. Those groups have more bridging social
capital.
The Saddleback groups are much more durable. And they probably
provide a deeper community. They provide a real sense of home when
people find themselves in crisis. But if you think about social
capital from a broader social perspective, you would conclude that
the U.S. needs nothing more than it needs connectivity across lines
of class, race and gender—that is, we need more bridging
social capital.
Both bonding and bridging social capital are valuable. It’s
like vitamins. You need both vitamin A and vitamin C. But it’s
harder to build bridging social capital. People just feel more
comfortable around people like themselves. The creation of bridging
social capital is in a sense an unnatural act.
If you were speaking to a group of
pastors about your work on social capital,
what thoughts would you want to leave them
with?
I would urge them to think about their congregations from the perspective
of social capital, and with the realization that we are in a period
when America as a whole, and not just the church, needs to build
more connections. I wouldn’t have said in the 1950s that
the biggest task of pastors is to build connections. Now I would
ask them to think about their congregations and their leadership
in terms of building social capital especially building bridging
social capital.
The next thing I’d say is: Be willing to think outside the
box with respect to strategies for building social capital. Not
because your crazy, quirky new idea is necessarily going to be
a success. It probably won’t be. But the only way we’re
going to see progress is by trying lots of creative, innovative
ideas. There will be mistakes along the way but they will be excellent
mistakes.
There are no quick fixes. Building social capital takes time. It
takes a lot of “face time.” But face time is never
wasted time. Pastors need to remember this. They need to remind
their congregations of this reality.
The last thing I’d say is: When you get a new idea that works
let the rest of the country know about it.
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Questions for Reflection and Conversation
- Robert Putnam sees religion as a motivator
for connecting with other people. How true
is this in your experience?
- Putnam’s research suggests that
the religious person is more likely than
his/her secular counterpart to be involved
in the life of the larger community. How
does this check out with your experience?
- How many televisions are there in you
home? Where are they? How does their presence
or where they are located impact the time
family members are actually in touch with
each other?
- Putnam makes the point that television
watching has deeply affected how much we
are in touch with others outside and inside
the home. Most people, he suggests, are
watching Friends rather
than having friends over to visit. How
true is this for you?
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Dear Bro. Bob,
I have a problem and I'm hoping you can help.
The SCC that we have been affiliated with for many
years now has new members who want to change things.
They are really good people who work for social justices
of all kinds. That, in itself, is a good thing. They,
however, are no longer happy with the formatting
of the SCC meetings. Gerry and I want to keep things
so that we follow the Quest books,
but they seem to want to do more like a book club
thing. They want to begin by reading a book called God’s
Politics. I’m sure the book is a great
one but, again, it’s not what we signed on
for. Are there other groups doing this? How should
we handle this? I think you know us well enough to
know that change doesn’t bother us (We’re
not that old yet.), but this just seems totally out
of the realm of the SCC. All these people have gone
through the JustFaith program and
are all affiliated with Social Justice Education.
Help!!!!!
Bev Thompson
An
Inquiry from Cyberspace
Robert K. Moriarty, S.M.
(From time to time small church
community members call or write to explore various
issues and events of small community life. The e-mail
message around which these reflections are written
arrived this past fall. It has since occasioned some
valuable reflection and convers- ation among members
of the department’s advisory board and at a recent
meeting of the Alliance parish core teams. A summary
of my reflections spurred by this e-mail follows here.)
When this e-mail inquiry appeared on my screen I was
immediately struck by the wealth of implications that
are involved. A quick note back would not allow a nuanced
reply that would address a whole range of issues. A
conversation was needed. So, I called Bev Thompson
(The names have been changed, of course.) that same
day. My initial concern was to communicate my respect
for the tension that was involved and to suggest that
this one should not be too quickly or too summarily
resolved. Off the bat, my basic thought was that there
is too much fundamental common ground between what
small church communities and the JustFaith program
are about for them to find themselves in opposition
to one another.
Before we go any further, a few words of explanatory
background will be helpful. JustFaith is “a conversion-based
process that seeks to integrate personal spirituality
and social ministry”. It is centered on a multi-faceted
30-week learning process that aims at “training
and forming parishioners to be agents of social transformation”.
The book, Gods’ Politics by
Jim Wallis is one resource that folks may use for on-going
reflection and mutual formation in the JustFaith process.
The subtitle of the book, Why the right gets it wrong
and the left doesn’t get it, captures the basic
tone of the book. It aims to look at contentious social
issues in a way that moves beyond mere partisanship.
It aims to consider these issues rather in the light
of the biblical tradition or from the perspective of
God’s politics.
Small church communities, of course have their own
structure and identity. They are centered on the experience
of ordinary people helping each other to connect life
and faith regularly. The elements of belonging, formation
in faith, prayer and service (or as the Rite
of Christian Initiation would put them: word,
community, worship and witness) are the touchstones
around which to test the authenticity of a fully-fledged
small church community.
My basic message to Bev was – whatever decisions
they would be making, and there is more than one way
to go in all of this – that the members of the
community needed to have a full conversation about
all of the values at stake so they all would be enriched
and stretched in a mutually encouraging and challenging
way. I shared a number of thoughts on a variety of
issues that needed to be considered. Since then, having
given the e-mail message some more focused attention,
I would suggest that there are at least eight key issues
that are at stake in this e-mail for Bev’s small
Christian community and for any small community.
The importance of how we integrate new members. New
members to a small community are jumping on a moving
train. The community needs to slow down, pause, so
that new members have a chance to get on board. This
takes time and attention. Members need to share the
history, the story of the community. New and old members
need to share their hopes, dreams and expectations
of the community. How the small community operates
needs to be fully shared, so that newcomers can check
that out with their own expectations.

Members
of the Spring ‘06 Quest Design Team gathered for review and conversation about their respective weekly units. From left to right: Lilyan Fraher, R.S.M., Jo-Ann Iannotti, O.P., Rich Dalidowitz, Andrée Grafstein, Deacon Julie Marcarelli, Fr. Bob Burbank, Bob Moriarty, S.M., Fr. Bob O’Grady,
Pat Piano and Rosemarie Greco, D.W.
The need to acknowledge and deal with conflict. Conflict
is uncomfortable, but it is a fact of life and of interpersonal
relations. Acknowledging it and dealing with it creatively
offers a path to growth and new life. Avoiding it leads
to subversion, passive aggression or explosion. Some
people think they have to take a nice pill before they
go to their small community gathering because, “After
all, this is church; people should be nice.” People
are different. Each of us sees things from an angle.
No one of us has the whole picture. People care deeply
about things they care about. We need to listen to
and learn from each other and sometimes, we even need
to change.
The importance of periodic
evaluation. Taking time to assess
how the community is doing on a periodic basis
serves to surface issues that may need the group’s
attention before something becomes really problematic.
Evaluation serves to facilitate the deepening of
the small community experience. Evaluation needs
to take place both at the level of group dynamics
(Does everyone have the opportunity to speak? Are
people feeling listened to, etc.), and at the level
of testing the authenticity of the small church
community in terms of its cultivating the four
elements of word, community, worship, witness.
The centrality of scripture. Scripture,
ordinarily the lectionary readings of the week ahead
or the week before the gathering, is the gathering
point around which the small church community orients
its life. The word of God is the privileged lens through
which the members look to find meaning and to give
shape to their lives.
Facing the challenge of long term communities. Sometimes
long-term communities start taking the experience for
granted. Things plateau; they might even get boring. “I
know what she’s gonna say even before she speaks.” “He
keeps telling the same old stories.” Longer-term
communities often need a break in their routine. Scripture
may be the primary lens through which the members look
at their lives, but some additional new grist for the
mill may also be helpful. Reading an article or a book
as a supplement to the community’s prime engagement
with scripture can offer a helpful spur to stimulate
the community. When this is done, it does not replace
the scripture, but complements it. Any chosen article,
say, on spirituality, the environment, social issues,
prayer should be reflected on in a way that connects
to the life and faith experience of the members.
The need to balance word, community, worship
and witness. The church is not one-dimensional.
The authentic small church community can not be either.
No community begins with the four elements fully
cultivated. Rather over time, they must each be attended
to. The small church community is not a prayer group;
it is not a bible study; it is not social action
group; it is not a support group. All of these elements
need to be present and fully developed.
The need to be church both gathered and sent. We
have a church because we have a mission. We are called
not only to the transformation of individual hearts
in coming to know Jesus as Lord; we are called as well
to the creation of a world of justice and peace, so
that God may be “all in all” in a transformed
world. Whether we are speaking of big church or small,
we are called to a vital inner and public life. As
church we are a people both gathered and sent.
The importance of pastoral facilitator gatherings. The
regular gathering of the communities’ pastoral
facilitators with the pastor/pastoral staff member
offers the ordinary and necessary setting for issues
of concern to be shared and reflected on for the encouragement
and challenge of the communities. While fully respecting
the confidentiality that may be appropriate, the shared
reflection of pastoral facilitators and pastoral leadership
is meant to be the support communities need in good
times and especially in times of difficulty.
Finally, let it be said that Bev’s small church community
is still intact. They have not resolved all their issues of concern,
but they are engaged in the process of sifting and sorting these
eight issues, each of which offers some important contribution
to addressing Bev’s presenting concern.
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Response in Action Suggestion
Invite the members of your small community
to read over this article at home. Ask each member
to identify the top three items that your community
could profitably take time to consider together.
Set aside some time at an upcoming small Christian
community meeting to hear what members think
are the top three issues that they would recommend
for the community’s attention. Tabulate
the results; then take some time to reflect
together on the three issues with the highest ranking. |
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Small Community Happenings... |
Core Team Development
Core Team development has recently been completed at
St. Mary, Unionville. It will be beginning shortly at St. Maria Goretti, Wolcott.
Exploratory meetings are also under way in a number of parishes. The two and
a half day formation workshop sponsored by the National Alliance of Parishes
Restructuring into Communities (NAPRC) will be scheduled in the months ahead
for several parishes that have completed the initial core team development process. |
Temporary Office Relocation
Construction is underway at St. Thomas Seminary & Archdiocesan
Center for retirement residence apartments for retired priests. This
work will entail major construction on the two floors directly above
the department and other offices that have been located on what is
affectionately known as the Hogan’s Alley wing of the seminary.
Accordingly, in the middle of January our offices were relocated
for the duration to the third floor. Phone and fax numbers remain
the same. |
Help
Us Market Quest
Quest, our archdiocesan reflection booklet for small Christian communities,
is now distributed to every state in the union, save one. Word of
mouth has been the way people have learned about Quest to date. We
have never done any advertising for the booklet. Quest is a much
appreciated resource around the country, indeed around the world.
We would like to be able to make it even more widely available. To
that end, we could benefit from the help of some small community
member out there who has some professional experience with marketing
and advertising. If you are in a position to offer us some assistance
in this regard, or if you know of someone who might volunteer to
give us advice, please contact the office at (860) 243-9642. |
Small Christian Communities:
A Global Phenomenon
Fr. Jim O’Halloran (Dublin, Ireland) wrote awhile back telling
of his experience tilling the soil for small Christian communities
in South Africa and Lesotho this past summer. He spoke in particular
about very favorable work in a parish in Cape Town called Westridge.
The pastor there, Fr Eoin Farrelly, had been preparing the ground
for six months by celebrating the eucharist in homes. This was followed
by a two-week retreat on the subject of community. The first week
was in the church; the second was in the homes launching groups.
Ten groups made a start and all manifested a desire to continue. “With
the help of God,” says Fr. Jim, “some of them will mature
into becoming SCCs with time. As you know, it’s not a numbers
game; it’s about being a leaven. Even a few SCCs can bring
a lot of life to a parish.” |
National Joint Convocation – 2007
For more than ten years now, the three principal small Christian
Community organizations have been joint sponsoring a periodic joint
national convocation. These three organizations are Buena Vista,
the National Alliance of Parishes Restructuring into Communities
and the North American Forum for Small Christian Communities. For
the 2007 convocation, the Mexican American Cultural Center and
the Secretariat for Hispanic Affairs (USCCB) have accepted the
invitation to join in the sponsoring and planning for the upcoming
convocation. Bro. Robert Moriarty, S.M. has accepted the invitation
to chair the planning committee for the 2007 gathering. Stay tuned
for details. |
NAPRC 2006 Conference
The 2006 NAPRC conference will be hosted by St. Christopher’s
parish in Marysville, MI from July 27-29. Fr. Art Baranowski, NAPRC
founder, is the pastor at St. Christopher. Deepening our engagement
with scripture will be the theme for this conference. Scripture scholar,
Diane Bergant, C.S.A. of the Catholic Theological Union in Chicago
will be the keynote presenter. Conference brochures are available
from this office. |
Dar es Salaam – 2006
Year of SCC
Fr. Joseph Healey, M.M. writes from Tanzania to say that the Archdiocese
of Dar es Salaam has recently announced that 2006 will be known as “Small
Christian Communities Year”, i.e., small communities will be
the main pastoral priority or theme for the archdiocese this year.
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